Sunday, July 15, 2007
They don't need time to think about it...
Love is something you are sure about there is no doubt. It's a strong feeling you can't explain, But you know - because you can feel it. Everyone can show love, but can they feel love. We all show our love in differnt ways. How about the greatest couple, who's husband buys her flowers and gifts and takes her out on a regular basis, and we all say how lucky she is, and than BOOM... The next thing you hear is they are going through a bitter divorce.... and nobody can believe it. Why - because he showed his love through guilt, but she never felt love, oh sure she got alot of flowers and gifts, but none of that matters if you don't feel love. So just because someone doesn't show you love but you can feel it- than you know it's love. You know the feeling i'm talking about... You can't make someone love you, yea in time they might grow to love, but thats a different kind of love (we all love coffee in the morning, but were not in love with our coffee). Point being when you love someone they will love you back, there will be no doubts, because you know in your heart... He Loves Me... They don't need time to think about it...
Saturday, July 7, 2007
Hope is often the result of faith
Hope is a belief in a positive outcome related to events and circumstances in one's life. Hope implies a certain amount of perseverance — i.e., believing that a positive outcome is possible even when there is some evidence to the contrary. Beyond the basic definition, usage of the term hope follows some basic patterns which distinguish its usage from related terms:
Hope as an emotion produces a motivation to act. For example, if one has hope a bus driver will wait for them, that person may be motivated to run towards it; but if the bus begins to pull away and the person loses hope they can catch that bus, they lose motivation and stop running. Similarly, if standing at a bus stop hopeful a bus is soon forthcoming, one may be motivated to remain at the stop. If that one loses hope that a bus will come shortly, that person might lose motivation to stay waiting and might try to hail a taxi or just walk.
Hopefulness is somewhat different from optimism in that hope is an emotional state, whereas optimism is a conclusion reached through a deliberate thought pattern that leads to a positive attitude. But hope and optimism both can be based in unrealistic belief, or fantasy.
Hope is often the result of faith in that while hope is an emotion, faith carries a divinely inspired and informed form of positive belief. Hope is typically contrasted with despair, but despair may also refer to a crisis of faith. Hence, when used in a religious context, hope carries a connotation being aware of spiritual truth. (In some religions, despair itself is considered to be a sin; see Hope (virtue)).
In Catholic theology, hope is one of the three theological virtues (faith, hope, and charity), which are spiritual gifts of God. In contrast to the above, it is not a physical emotion but a spiritual grace.
Hope is distinct from positive thinking, which refers to a therapeutic or systematic process used in psychology for reversing pessimism.
The term false hope refers to a hope based entirely around a fantasy or an extremely unlikely outcome.
Examples of hopes include hoping to get rich, hoping for someone to be cured of a disease, hoping to be done with a term paper, or hoping that a person has reciprocal feelings of love.
Hope as an emotion produces a motivation to act. For example, if one has hope a bus driver will wait for them, that person may be motivated to run towards it; but if the bus begins to pull away and the person loses hope they can catch that bus, they lose motivation and stop running. Similarly, if standing at a bus stop hopeful a bus is soon forthcoming, one may be motivated to remain at the stop. If that one loses hope that a bus will come shortly, that person might lose motivation to stay waiting and might try to hail a taxi or just walk.
Hopefulness is somewhat different from optimism in that hope is an emotional state, whereas optimism is a conclusion reached through a deliberate thought pattern that leads to a positive attitude. But hope and optimism both can be based in unrealistic belief, or fantasy.
Hope is often the result of faith in that while hope is an emotion, faith carries a divinely inspired and informed form of positive belief. Hope is typically contrasted with despair, but despair may also refer to a crisis of faith. Hence, when used in a religious context, hope carries a connotation being aware of spiritual truth. (In some religions, despair itself is considered to be a sin; see Hope (virtue)).
In Catholic theology, hope is one of the three theological virtues (faith, hope, and charity), which are spiritual gifts of God. In contrast to the above, it is not a physical emotion but a spiritual grace.
Hope is distinct from positive thinking, which refers to a therapeutic or systematic process used in psychology for reversing pessimism.
The term false hope refers to a hope based entirely around a fantasy or an extremely unlikely outcome.
Examples of hopes include hoping to get rich, hoping for someone to be cured of a disease, hoping to be done with a term paper, or hoping that a person has reciprocal feelings of love.
Saturday, June 30, 2007
A Perception or a Reality
This happens with me all the time, meeting new people makes me wonder of how the world functions and how it creates varies numbers of ideas to evolve thought process.
A game or just a simple stroke of luck, a message or just a mere appreciation of beauty, a bad night or a great day.................this is what constitutes of days/ months and years which give shape to experiences.
Sounds so philosophical but that really gives way to different thoughts...rite?
We are what we are but we can also shape what we are and what we wnat to be.
Choices are to be made by us only. Thts what this blog is all about.
thinks, believe and then act.
Is it really difficult to act?
Not really, but if you try harder you might get the right direction.
Vague isnt it?????????????????? true
A game or just a simple stroke of luck, a message or just a mere appreciation of beauty, a bad night or a great day.................this is what constitutes of days/ months and years which give shape to experiences.
Sounds so philosophical but that really gives way to different thoughts...rite?
We are what we are but we can also shape what we are and what we wnat to be.
Choices are to be made by us only. Thts what this blog is all about.
thinks, believe and then act.
Is it really difficult to act?
Not really, but if you try harder you might get the right direction.
Vague isnt it?????????????????? true
Wednesday, May 16, 2007
This HAPPENSS a lot...
Im having my finals these days and it gets so frustrating sometimes to keep on working for the same stuff again and again.
For me, designing and art direction is a PASSION. But as a creative, i get bored too, bored of the monotony, the routined life, the same room which i wake up to every morning, had to rush to catch the bus, working late till the wee reee geee hours of night, ya thats my unusal expression of staying up late, hearing all the noises of students (i live in the dorms which is located on the main road - downtown Sanfrancisco). HMMMMMMM, and the biggest problem of this city is FIRE ENGINE TRUCKS.....im not kiddin.....they run to save you even before your neighbour gets up and ring ur door bell.
Thats me, :) but im not complaining, i would love to but only with the ones i feel could comprehend. DO THEY? DID THEY?
So here am i, all alone in the beautiful city, wondering how i got here........to tell you honestly, i know how but its such a long story, next time :)
i will be done with my first semester after 2 days...wow! PROUD OF IT!!!!!!
So lets see what life holds for me, m so positive about it.
THANKYOU GOD
For me, designing and art direction is a PASSION. But as a creative, i get bored too, bored of the monotony, the routined life, the same room which i wake up to every morning, had to rush to catch the bus, working late till the wee reee geee hours of night, ya thats my unusal expression of staying up late, hearing all the noises of students (i live in the dorms which is located on the main road - downtown Sanfrancisco). HMMMMMMM, and the biggest problem of this city is FIRE ENGINE TRUCKS.....im not kiddin.....they run to save you even before your neighbour gets up and ring ur door bell.
Thats me, :) but im not complaining, i would love to but only with the ones i feel could comprehend. DO THEY? DID THEY?
So here am i, all alone in the beautiful city, wondering how i got here........to tell you honestly, i know how but its such a long story, next time :)
i will be done with my first semester after 2 days...wow! PROUD OF IT!!!!!!
So lets see what life holds for me, m so positive about it.
THANKYOU GOD
Wednesday, April 25, 2007
WOMAN WAKE UP!!!!! PAMPER URSELF
Every woman needs to take a day for herself, a day to do what she wants to do. This can be once a week, once a month or once a year. It matters not how often it happens but merely that it does. If you have kids, they will survive for a day or two without you. Someone can and will take care of them if you ask them to. You need time to be you even if sometimes you aren't quite sure anymore exactly who you are! You need time to be alone with your thoughts, alone with yourself, free of the burdens and responsibilities of your day-to-day life. If you can get away from home, try to do just that. Plan a spa day (or weekend) if you can afford it. It will be money well spent and pampering well deserved. Sleep late. Read a magazine or a book. Watch movies. Order room service. Work-out (or not!). Go hiking or walking. Explore the country, the quaint little towns. Check out the shopping, the local boutiques. Look at the houses, the real estate for sale. Find a local restaurant and stop in for lunch. Rest and relax. And when it is time to go home, cherish your respite. Look forward the next one whenever it may come again. Go back to your life and just be you.
Sunday, March 25, 2007
Keep in touch
Make a vow to keep in touch with people who are important to you. It may not seem like a big deal now, but in your later years, the dissolution of personal relationships may be a really big regret. Devote a morning or an evening each week to make that one visit, meet for a coffee with that one friend or make that long-overdue phone call. Each time you touch base, you’ll be working toward the further goal of maintaining friendships. Sometimes it’s hard when you have a lot going on, but later on, when life slows down, you’ll be glad to have taken care to keep your friends close. As an added bonus, you’d be surprised what people can teach you when you spend a little time talking with them.
How do i change?
If I feel depressed I will sing.
If I feel sad I will laugh.
If I feel ill I will double my labour.
If I feel fear I will plunge ahead.
If I feel inferior I will wear new garments.
If I feel uncertain I will raise my voice.
If I feel poverty I will think of wealth to come.
If I feel incompetent I will think of past success.
If I feel insignificant I will remember my goals.
Today I will be the master of my emotions.
If I feel sad I will laugh.
If I feel ill I will double my labour.
If I feel fear I will plunge ahead.
If I feel inferior I will wear new garments.
If I feel uncertain I will raise my voice.
If I feel poverty I will think of wealth to come.
If I feel incompetent I will think of past success.
If I feel insignificant I will remember my goals.
Today I will be the master of my emotions.
Saturday, March 24, 2007
I've come to believe that each of us has a personal calling that's as unique as a fingerprint - and that the best way to succeed is to discover what you love and then find a way to offer it to others in the form of service, working hard, and also allowing the energy of the universe to lead you.
Oprah Winfrey, O Magazine, September 2002
US actress & television talk show host
Oprah Winfrey, O Magazine, September 2002
US actress & television talk show host
Friday, March 23, 2007
Re-Designin life...
It striked me few months back how life can be miraculous at times and how friends act like angels in disguise.
Roller Coaster Ride is what it had been for me all throughout the process, happiness was always subjective and never questioned........love was a temporary phase and it got lost the moment it was found.
There ware many reasons to enjoy life and now i have somehow found a way of believing in it.
Sometimes i wonder how color effects ones mood and maybe thats why i love to to play with them, life is just like different shades of color. You feel happy, sad, anxious, frustrated.....and it goes on. There are times when you long for special moments, and then there are times when you just want to ran as fast as you could.
Fear and Mystery are two main things in our lives which makes us experience things, and the funny bit is that we dont fear things, we fear ourselves, we are scared of things which we mite end up doing and end up getting used to it.
Some are scared of people and some of situations. Humans are mysterious creatures, they like their opposites, sometimes end up marrying them too but the most funny part is they never tried to be the person they fell in love with...was it fear or mystery which made them fall for that person. I wonder what kind of philosophy is behind all that. But human relations are not based on theories and experiments, they are based on connections, how you connect, your behaviour, your thoughts.
Life needs redesigning all the time, we want change, we long for happiness and peace of mind with all the pains, tears and heartbreaks.......the combination is just wonderful coz it makes me what we are.
So start living and stop complaining, we are all humans!!!!!!
Roller Coaster Ride is what it had been for me all throughout the process, happiness was always subjective and never questioned........love was a temporary phase and it got lost the moment it was found.
There ware many reasons to enjoy life and now i have somehow found a way of believing in it.
Sometimes i wonder how color effects ones mood and maybe thats why i love to to play with them, life is just like different shades of color. You feel happy, sad, anxious, frustrated.....and it goes on. There are times when you long for special moments, and then there are times when you just want to ran as fast as you could.
Fear and Mystery are two main things in our lives which makes us experience things, and the funny bit is that we dont fear things, we fear ourselves, we are scared of things which we mite end up doing and end up getting used to it.
Some are scared of people and some of situations. Humans are mysterious creatures, they like their opposites, sometimes end up marrying them too but the most funny part is they never tried to be the person they fell in love with...was it fear or mystery which made them fall for that person. I wonder what kind of philosophy is behind all that. But human relations are not based on theories and experiments, they are based on connections, how you connect, your behaviour, your thoughts.
Life needs redesigning all the time, we want change, we long for happiness and peace of mind with all the pains, tears and heartbreaks.......the combination is just wonderful coz it makes me what we are.
So start living and stop complaining, we are all humans!!!!!!
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